I am just curious what men out there think about my stbx's behavior and if he can ever change.I don't want him back, it is too late.But we have 3 boys together and I wonder for their sake what can make a guy change his abusive ways.Stbx was physically and verbally abusive to all of us.He beat me up pretty badly in front of my sons after I tried to make him stop choking my son who is 9.There has been many times like that but the injuries were worse this time.He was really drunk as he is most days.That is what started the divorce even though I have wanted out for a long time for many reasons.He has hidden his gambling and porn addictions until now.I am so worried for my sons to be alone with him for visitation and so are the boys.He does have criminal charges pending for the abuse and for violating the restraining order the judge put on him still pending.He hasn't been able to see any of us because of the r.o.I don't think normal men act this way so I am probably asking for some hard to give advice.All the men in this community adore their kiddos.Any advice at all or encouragement would be great.
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