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guys in model type women

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Ok I have a question that has been really bothering me for years. Why do almost all men have to have a women that is the size of a model? I am not saying all men, but I have been going places here lately and listening to the way men have been talking and watching the ones they are trying to pick up and it is the skinny model type while the ones that are very pretty but might have a few extra pounds are sitting there with no one. So guys or girls can anyone answer that. For the record I am not one to go off looks I want to know the inside of a person.
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Actually I don't myself. I think the giraffe look is gross.
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I actually don't look for a model type. I'm looking for somebody good looking, which is how you end up talking to them in the first place.

If they happen to model thin ok, if not ok.
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I would much rather be with a woman who is comfortable with herself than one who is constantly shooting herself down and holding herself to unrealistic standards.
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The closer to the bone, the sweeter the meat LOL
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That is what a mean jbaha14 If they are not pretty you won't talk to them. Why?
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Silverbullit I like that idea of the bone ;p
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OMG that's not what I meant..well maybe ;)
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Pretty doesn't have to be model. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I might think that somebody is good looking and other people may not.

Most people, in my mind, don't typically go out to a bar/club to make friends, they are there to meet somebody. Chances are they went there with a bunch of friends.
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Whoa I talk to all kinds of women and there body type does not enter into it. Many time I don't even know what they look like. My stbx was no model and I don't run into models all the time so thats not what I am looking for. Not that there is any thing wrong with models.
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uh huh sure you didn't silverbullet LMAO ;) :)
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Busted... LMAO
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I have extra meat and a lot of guys find me attractive.Not all but a lot.
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I guess where I live it is the guys. Because They are not nice here when it comes to women and there looks. All you guys on here are the way men should be. And I will say I know a few women here where I live that totally go off looks and I just think that is soo wrong.
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That is great JaneR!!!!!
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I live near NYC so I see those "models" all the time. They are nice to look at, but are most likely not going to get a peep from me because of their attitude. Now or course I'm stereotyping them, but they just don't seem to be willing to be fun.
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