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A friend sent me an e-mail saying he couldn't figure out women. If he complimented them he thought he was too forward. If he didn't - he was too self absorbed. If he tried to kiss them on first date - he was too forward. If he didn't - they would think he lacked interest. I never knew us women were so hard to figure out! :)
He came up with his own ABC'c of chivalry. Do you folks think this syuff is outdated?
Here is his "alphabetiquette for women. Sounds good to me!
A-Always open the door for a lady\
B -Bring her flowers on special occasions.
C -Care when she tells you about her day--even when she's happy about silly things like nail polish.
D -Do put the seat down on the toilet. Not falling in is such a lovely thing for her.
E -Extend a helping hand if she has to climb in or out of your vehicle.
F -Fight for what is right. You will command her respect.
G -Gallantry is very handsome.
H -Handle her like something you treasure.
I -Invite her friends or family out occasionally. She will enjoy them enjoying you.
J -Just listen. You can help her fix the problem later.
K -Kindness to animals and children is extremely attractive.
L -Learn to balance a checkbook. Financial wisdom is cool.
M -Maintain good eye contact.
N -Never be less than truthful. Speak the truth with kindness.
0 -Go OVER to you buddy's for awhile. She knows you need time with them, and it gives her time to shop.
P -Praise the things you appreciate about her.
Q -Quiet. Conversation doesn't always have to fill the air.
R -Respect her.
S -Spontaneously surprise her. Go bowling at midnight just because.
T -Table manners are an important art.
U -Umbrella. Have one to offer just in case.
V -Vienese waltzing is well worth the lessons.
W -Whining. Don't.
X -Xylophone Xtrodanaire: Let her in on you secret ambitions.
Y -"Yes Dear" is really irritating. She knows you aren't engaged. Be honest enough to tell her you need to talk later.
Z -Zzzzz are important. Getting enough sleep makes you less cranky.
He came up with his own ABC'c of chivalry. Do you folks think this syuff is outdated?
Here is his "alphabetiquette for women. Sounds good to me!
A-Always open the door for a lady\
B -Bring her flowers on special occasions.
C -Care when she tells you about her day--even when she's happy about silly things like nail polish.
D -Do put the seat down on the toilet. Not falling in is such a lovely thing for her.
E -Extend a helping hand if she has to climb in or out of your vehicle.
F -Fight for what is right. You will command her respect.
G -Gallantry is very handsome.
H -Handle her like something you treasure.
I -Invite her friends or family out occasionally. She will enjoy them enjoying you.
J -Just listen. You can help her fix the problem later.
K -Kindness to animals and children is extremely attractive.
L -Learn to balance a checkbook. Financial wisdom is cool.
M -Maintain good eye contact.
N -Never be less than truthful. Speak the truth with kindness.
0 -Go OVER to you buddy's for awhile. She knows you need time with them, and it gives her time to shop.
P -Praise the things you appreciate about her.
Q -Quiet. Conversation doesn't always have to fill the air.
R -Respect her.
S -Spontaneously surprise her. Go bowling at midnight just because.
T -Table manners are an important art.
U -Umbrella. Have one to offer just in case.
V -Vienese waltzing is well worth the lessons.
W -Whining. Don't.
X -Xylophone Xtrodanaire: Let her in on you secret ambitions.
Y -"Yes Dear" is really irritating. She knows you aren't engaged. Be honest enough to tell her you need to talk later.
Z -Zzzzz are important. Getting enough sleep makes you less cranky.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I wish it could just be genetically reprogrammed in...
Tell your friend that he isn't "outdated" he just hasn't found the right woman. He seems to be looking for someone who appreciates a bit of Class.
A -All about them.
B -Buy, Buy, Buy.
C -Care, dont be doormat.
D -Divorce threats common.
E -Enough is enough.
F -Faithfulness rare.
G -Gimme, Gimme.
H -Husbands are no counts.
I -Irate is hobby.
J -Just give in.
K -Kiss then run.
L -Love and lose.
M -Money makes smiles.
N -Never turn your back.
0 -Get OVER it.
P -Protect your heart.
Q -Quilting dont exsist.
R -Rants about nothing.
S -Scorn is popular.
T -Treat mutually.
U -Ultimatums daily.
V -Vanity rules her.
W -Women degrade men is art.
X -X is short for ex.
Y -Yes is only allowed.
Z -Zoot's coffee thoughts.
But what happens when you do all those and she still wants you out?
There are some on here that I did not do and probably lead to the breakdown of my marriage and I will not make the same mistakes with the next lady friend.
I never made an ABC list for my EX but it might be fun to do!
he seems to be realistic and have a good grip on how things are...lol
oh yeah.. your friends list is great.. find me a guy who can do all of that would ya!
Zoot...stay in contact.. Im looking for my Next Ex...lol.. (its a joke.. its a joke)