Okay, I can't believe the men I chose. The last 3 men in my life all turned out the same. They all asked for money. The last one I only knew a week and said he is really looking for someone to get him ahead financially, but before that he was looking for love of course. He said that if he just has $600 he could get ahead on his bills and focus on me him. Of course I had some choice words for him and needless to say we don't talk anymore. I just want the advice from you all on why men do that to women?? I have already focused on "myself" and what I want in life and am ready for a nice man in my life but they all turn out the same. How is that possible?? I heard all the stuff about stepping back and just focus on myself and all that jaz, but I'm 37 tomorrow and am sick of meeting all the wrong guys. I've tried all the dating sites, singles dances, blind dates, church singles groups, work relationships, and so on and so forth. So if you can let me know what you see looking from the outside and tell me what I'm doing wrong. Oh, and I am not all acting so desperate and stuff like you might say. I try to be picky, and play it safe. And I'm not desperate either. So don't get that impression. I am just ready for a nice guy and don't know what the next step should be!!!