Divorced, 41, Daughter lives with her dad about 1 hour 15m from me...Me=remarried 1 year in july...Daughter with Dad because better home, better schools, financially better than me (for now, he if can maintain will always be, but that's another story)..She sure could use a mom to take her places, school stuff, just being there, he works out of house cpa..but he has his own issues (why i left finally) now she is stick with them...(guilt for me)...but i am not...talk on phone...see her every other weekend..i go there...she will not stay with me due to new H....no problem with him..she just can't she says....won't disucss it really...never met or got to know him yet...Ex would like me back...i should not just go to care for her.I try not to upset him as then he may take it out on her...he tried to push her away from me , she did not go with it...he is now "ok" with me again...go figure....i am so torn and confused about everything...my daughter should be my life and main focus right??? i am going to counseling when i can afford it...it helps a bit..but the day to day sadness is becoming hard to deal with..it probably would be better if she would come and visit...we have a good friend whose daughter is her best friend that she stays with when she comes to "visit" but she will not come over to my place..i have not forced anything on her...maybe that is not good to let her run the show...dont know..i see this kind of situation handled differently by others...i am miserable..not being there for her but i can go back just for that??? thanks
Posts You May Be Interested In
I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
well, im new to this group and I have been wondering if anyone had these issues before they came out. My current situation is that I'm in a relationship with a man...as of right now. I have always been attracted to women and even been in relationship with one before when I was younger. The last 3 relationships I have been in were with Men. I was even married to one...he always called me a...