My husband was a jerk throughout our 9 almost 10 year marriage.He constantly fought with me in front of the kids. Ignored my feelings.Punched holes in the walls,neglected me all the time as far as physical touch was also extremely selfish in the bedroom,he lost our house because he wouldn't work,turned our dog so mean that we had to put him to sleep, never helped me clean the house even when I had a c-section and was supposed to be in bed rest, never took out the garbage or mowed the lawn. We have been separated for a year now he claims to have changed and now he wants me back but I haven't seen any change. I don't want him back because of all the things he put me through and want a divorce. I just can't understand why I feel so guilty.He tells me that if I divorce him he will leave the state. I feel so bad for my kids because then if he does that the kids will grow up without a father.Part of me says that I should go back to him for the kids sake but that would mean that I have to sacrifice my own happiness in the process. I just don't know what to do. I am so confused....
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