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Guess what I am getting for CHRISTmas!

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Divorce papers to sign! Ain't that the best gift EVER? *Rolls Eyes*
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Hey, I'm gettin tires...

yay.
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I went out and bought myself a ring. A week or so ago I finally had my wedding band cut off b/c it was STUCK on. It actually left a rut that was so obvious I may as well have rented a billboard saying HEY I AM GETTING DIVORCED. I always loved silver- my stbx hated it and always said oh no you will wear gold. Needless to say I got a BIG FAT SILVER ring. heh heh
oh, and I got groceries for xmas too.
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blooming, you are so funny, I so relate in a not-literal way!
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Got mine two days ago. An early gift!!
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I'd rather go giftless till death than to receive the gift that will arrive in my mailbox soon.

*sigh*
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
Tuesday is our first day in court; Preliminary Conference

I emailed stbx asking if she wants to drive me
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lol. I wish I had your creativity. Wish I had the gazoongas to tell my husband that.
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What was her reply...
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Don't sign them. Hold onto them until February and then have them delivered with a singing telegram where he works on Valentine's Day - any song suggestions?
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I am not trying to be corny or a smart ass. but you could look at the glass as half full and say you are getting freedom for Christmas, a new fresh start for the new year..
hugs,
Erica
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That's true, I reckon.
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Your gift will be better then mine. I just found out I will be losing my job. They think right after Christmas.

I can't find anything positive about that but I'm staying hopeful that something will work out.
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sorry. i am finalized december 20th - but i initiated it, but it is still very hard. it is a new start and very appropriate for the new year - a new year resolution that i can't blow off. i guess we just learn to smile.
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I'm so sorry, and I'm right there with you. My divorce became final this past Monday, which I did not want. Let's hold our heads up high and think this was a blessing. We'll come out stronger, happier, and they'll get what's coming to them in the end.Hang in there. I am.
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I am so sorry 2b, that you are losing your job. That is indeed a hard thingto go throuh. I wish you all the luck in finding a BETTER one. ;)
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