my husband and I have been in counseling for a month. I have let him unload because this is the first time for him.I have repeatly ask the counselor to give us tools so we can talk about "us" when we are at home. Books,videos,retreats anything that will bring us to emotional "us".She side steps this. I know there are good counselors and not so good. Yeah, she falls into the bottom end. Don't think the husband will go for a change of counselors , It was me that wanted it if he was going to move back home.She just says "um hum" to all that we say. We are still walking around the elephant in the room. Which is talking about emotional issues about us. We get along ok, Im trying to figure out if I still want to live with him or not? any suggestion ????
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