This is the part I hate. Sometimes I have such good days and others are so bad. Yesterday was a bad day but with advice from my sister I signed up for this group :) I'm headed to the gym this morning before work determined to make it a good day. I'm just so worried about the financial part of my life. Now that he has been awarded temporary support of $2400, I've got to figure out how I'm going to make it. I just hate CA divorce laws. Our son is living with me and going to college and I'm supporting him but in CA courts they don't count that because he is an adult. We are going to be short $500 a month and that is before living expenses. And to top it off , I had to pay his attorney fees!! So i get physically and emotionally abused for 21 years, since I was 18 and despite that ,I get a six figure career going. He is unemployed because he can't keep a job with his drug and alcohol problems and I'm the one who has to pay??? So unfair...but I guess it could be worse, he could still be here.
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