I have to contact my STBX about a few things on the first draft of the settlement agreement and I am going to ask about trying to work things out. I hadnt planned on this but I think I should do it so that my mind is satisfied. I am going to say that I wish things could be different and that I am open to seeing if there is anything that we can do to work towards reconciling. I know that the reality is that she will say no but I need to hear it again. It will hurt but I have moved extremely fast with the divorce and caught her by surprise. I just need to ask one more time. Do you all think Im crazy? She would have to do so much work and so would I, so I doubt we could get through it, but I feel like this is such a big deal that I cant let it go without asking for the final time. What do you think???
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