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I am very unhappy with where the discussions are going this weekend. I think I'll leave the site for awhile or for good. I really have loved the help I have been given & tried to give. This place has been good to me.
But this weekend there is name calling, police calling, and just plain meanness going around. We are here to help each other out - and when someone see that they can do better, and state that they will, that is all you can ask of a human being. I make mistakes, you make mistakes. I want loving help to do better. That is the best type.
Too much negative repylies going around for my taste. I wish you all the best.
But this weekend there is name calling, police calling, and just plain meanness going around. We are here to help each other out - and when someone see that they can do better, and state that they will, that is all you can ask of a human being. I make mistakes, you make mistakes. I want loving help to do better. That is the best type.
Too much negative repylies going around for my taste. I wish you all the best.
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I hope you'll stay and be a positive influence.
And I am starting to identify some bad apples here, fyi. Lets not let them spoil the bunch, eh?
Some people here just get carried away. Its easier to slam somebody or tear somebody down to make themselves look good as opposed to taking the time to building them up here. Some people have not figured that out yet. We NEED you sense of humor here, don't leave.
I am sorry you feel the need to leave.
I understand your frustration with the current state of negativity, and I wish it would change.
But the only way it's going to change is if people hang around and try to make it more positive.
There's that candle analogy. There's the quote from Ghandi, "You must be the change you wish to see in the world."
But you don't have to go. Don't log in for a few days maybe. But there's going to be times when this place will be able to help you out.
The negativity gets to me too. Seems to be so much more than when I got here in August. I find myself spending less time on DS than before.
But I'm not ready to leave. I still gleen support and advice from people here that help me.
I just try to avoid the topics or the people who I don't care for.