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Going to have a nervous breakdown. Need help.

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My husband was at my house last night watching the kids, cause he dose not have an appartment of his own yet. I went out to my girl friends house. I came home this morning to help pack some more. And I went on the computer and he had been on a dating site. We talked about this and told each other that we would tell each other if we were going to start dating so we would not get a suprised. Well there was also a girls number on my phone. Anyways I just feel like running away to get away from all of this to have some rest for a week. I am in such a bad state of mind right now. Please someone help me.
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What you need to do is find a counselor/therapist to help you gain the tools to deal with everything that is going on in your life, while still caring for your children.
What do you want to do ?
Run away ?
Have a nervous breakdown ?
Or confront the husband over this issue ?
Wherever you run to, your problems follow you.
Have a nervous breakdown by all means, don't be scared of 'breaking', you are human after all.
Which leaves the third option - ?
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Do seek counseling, for yourself and marriage counseling if he will go, but don't let him run you down. He certainly doesn't seem to be suffering or half as concerned as you are.
It's harder of course, because you have the kids. You are in a tough spot, but you have to take care of yourself for the kids if not for yourself.
Keep posting and let us know how you are.
"Peace. Be Still"
" I am alive, I will survive"
You will survive, and you will be a stronger person.