It has been awhile since I have posted anything but I need some friendly advice. My husband and I have been legally seperated for one year. To make a long story short he met someone while we were still together now there are numerous other reasons that got us to that point but she was the nail in the coffin so to speak. He would never agree to counseling always saying we didn't need it or it was too late and would not show up to scheduled times. We had a huge blow up over our daughter and him not communicating to me where or who was picking her up and in that conversation he agreed we need to see someone to help communicate better about our daughter. To be the best we can be for her. Now here's the part where I feel some hope and I haven't felt any in a long time. I should'nt right? and just see it for what it is us focusing on our daughter. We have so much resentment and anger he just stated the other day that he is still really angry. I want to go in with a clear mind and push the hope aside. Could use some good advice to remind me he isnt reaching out for me.
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