Im new here. After 12 years of marriage and 3 kids its over. Divorce papers have been filed and I am literally sick to my stomach. So many emotions that I can't explain Im feeling depressed. We have been living seperately for a year and the husband has already moved on to his new girlfriend. I am having a hard time accepting this as he barely makes time for our kids and spends all of his time with her. I am hurt, sad and angry. How is this so easy for him? I am trying to keep it together for the children but its so hard. I cant eat or sleep. Im crying all the time. Its affecting me at work . It is consuming me. All I keep thinking about is what he is doing with her and them together. I want this to stop because I have to be there for the kids since he is not. Anyone that has gone through this Does it get better with time? I just want to be happy again and not let his behaivor affect my life everyday and Im hurting for the kids as they miss their dad. Thanks to all who reads and replies.
Just joined and want to introduce myself. I have 3 disabled kids and have no help taking care of them I cant get out to see anyone or make friends. I'm feeling tremendously lonely and haven't been able to make friends for years. So I am walking out my door to say hi to this group.
The divorce was final on Halloween. It wasn’t something I wanted. I moved out and into my own house before Christmas. It was so hard moving, going to work, taking care of my kids and trying to put on a brave face during the holiday rush. It didn’t hit me until we started the custody schedule. I hate being away from my kids. I’ve tried focus more on self care since I know I didn’t...