Im new here. After 12 years of marriage and 3 kids its over. Divorce papers have been filed and I am literally sick to my stomach. So many emotions that I can't explain Im feeling depressed. We have been living seperately for a year and the husband has already moved on to his new girlfriend. I am having a hard time accepting this as he barely makes time for our kids and spends all of his time with her. I am hurt, sad and angry. How is this so easy for him? I am trying to keep it together for the children but its so hard. I cant eat or sleep. Im crying all the time. Its affecting me at work . It is consuming me. All I keep thinking about is what he is doing with her and them together. I want this to stop because I have to be there for the kids since he is not. Anyone that has gone through this Does it get better with time? I just want to be happy again and not let his behaivor affect my life everyday and Im hurting for the kids as they miss their dad. Thanks to all who reads and replies.
do you think it’s possible to be able to trust someone again after they cheated on you or is it not worth trying to fix it and to walk away?
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