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going round the bend

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SOme of you know me and know my story which is completely insane those who don't are welcome to read my journal. My STBX who I have a protection order against is having his family members sit outside my aprtment and spy on me and then going and questioning my friends and family members about my life. You really have to read my journals. He has even called my Older sons father who he never even met or talked to and tried to get him to testify against me (again in the journal) plus his whole family is accussing me of being the abussive one claiming I beat his 77 year old mother and killed her dog and put it in her bed.ANd they claim I fly off the handle ever five minute and I'm unstable. I work with kids with mental illness in a highly supervised situation and I have for almost 3 years do you think I would still have my job if I was like that? sorry I'm justt really stressed and looking for some sympathy.
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Just my non-professional opinion:

He's the nutter, not you.
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well you have come to the right place, i have followed your story, these people are out of a horror movie. honey, keep calling the police when these cars are sitting out there, tell them there are strange people outside your house, when they question them and find out they are his family and you have restraining order perhaps they will do something, or go back to court and have one taken out on them. hang in there. i hope you are safe. may God watch over you and your children and keep you all safe.
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That seems to be the general opinion of all who hear this story
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Do you know that you connot get a protection of abuse order against anyone you don't reside with?
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Maybe not,, but there is this new little law out that is called stalking and it is a felony! Monitor the activity,, write down dates and time.. get ahold of all the people they have questioned about you, get the names, dates and times... If they do not have a PI or a PI license,, that is against the law! Use that law to you advantage, to get them off of you!
Good luck!
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well one good thing is, is that my apartment complete is going to press criminal tresspass charges against his niece who was sitting outside my apartment last night so she will not be allowed on the premisis
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He is just pushing your buttons, waiting for you to crack. Don't give him the satisfaction, no matter how hard he tries to rattle you.

Hang tough. Sorry for all your crazy making. HUGS!!!
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You don't know the half of it.This man called the pastor of my church who I have known since I was 12 I'm now 33 I used to babysit his children and asked him to testify on his behalf. My pastor told him he needed prayer and counseling and he would be happy to help him with both
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Thank you! Now I don't feel nearly as bad about my ex and his strange family! though I have to say my family has so many cops in it...they wouldn't get very far with this kind of stuff.
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The thing I have to laugh about is that My da is a reverand (retiered) and noone in my family has a criminal record and yetthe people in his family who have signed affidavids against me all are drug addicts who go to the methadone clinic for thier crack addictions(swear to god) and have criminal records. Plus my husband did this to his first wife.
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