Hi group. Been here for a day and a half, and so much greatness has come my way, many thanks! My newest dilemma is I am taking our children away for the weekend. I am yes, 100% getting divorced and meet again with my atty. tomorrow to get the process going. I know when mw cheated on me, when I was out of town a couple of years ago, she was on a mad hunt to get the house in order, make sure my shoes were put away, etc. It is irritating me a bit, that the house has been a mess for a month, now that I am goign out of town with the kids camping, she's gung ho about cleaning again. I want to say something to her, like, don't have any dudes over my house, or I will do this or that, but I also don't want to give her any satisfaction of thinking she's bothering me or getting under my skin. Yes, this is still all so hard to take. Given the cards were flipped, I've not cheated to this day, and have been approached all the while, avoiding female real communication in some time. What would you do? I am goign to ask my atty. about it tomrrow and see what he says about if I should mention, don't have any A$$holes in my house you expletive bleep!
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