I just wanted to share a quick thought to all of you. I forget this sometime but I remember it every now and then and just reading the "I love you but im not in love with you" post made me think about it again. A lot of times God is just trying to protect is from enduring more pain in the long run when people break up with us. From reading most of the post most people were in marriages or relationships that were far from ideal anyway. And I just had to ask myself, would I really want to have been married to my ex-boyfriend---no! He does not know how to love and quite frankly is not interested in learning. I really do think God is saving me from the heartache later. Everytime he has a problem, he goes and runs and thinks that means talk to someone else. And he thinks that it is not love anymore when the excitement leaves. He is going to be in for a rude awakening down the line. I know that in the early stages of the breakup we are just so angry and mad at them, but God is looking out for us...............he really is.
Posts You May Be Interested In
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...