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Go away knot in my chest

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I must learn to let him go.....He can not step up to the plate, with all the stress and bad luck that had happened, he is going to mentally stayy in that place. He dose not want to move forward with hope and positvity. I can't beleive how constantly negative he is now...and he is the one that wants to live here. It's like getting a slap in the face everyday from him. And it hurts! I wanted to use love for forgivness...but it is a two way street for coming back together with love and forgivness. I must learn to just forgive and get on with my life without him. With forgivness of him, I hope not to be living with anger and sadness at him, so I can try to really be happy again. I need the knot that I live with to go away. Please knot, go away, I want sunshine in there in place of you.
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That knot is very painfull at the moment, But i promise yu it will ease.
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Thank you jacki1...I hope so.
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I promise you, it will get better. I ended up remarrying my first husband...forgave him and believed we both approached our second marriage together with the same goals, having worked through our issues independently in counseling during our two years apart. He ended up lying through his teeth, never went to counseling, faked it and a month after we remaried, he was back to his old ways. I survived divorce once and reached a point of being happy...and know I can do it again, although this time I have suffered more damage emotionally and financially. I also carry a great deal more bitterness with me this time.
Despite it all...I know deep in my heart, things will get better. I lived it once, so I know there is hope.
I'm sorry you are going through this...but take it from one survivor...it DOES get better.
keepthehope
keepthehope
I always hated that saying "time heals all wounds" when you hurt as bad as I do time seems to add to the pain at times. I know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Be strong at face each day as a new day. Hug your kids a little longer look into their faces and see and feel the love from them. You will get through this
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