Looking around here at some of these posts makes me feel better about myself. I have made some mistakes, some grave ones to be sure, but I know I'm not as bad as some of these SOB's that you people are inflicted with. My wife's two ex's are just two nights in a row of the same nightmare. I think subconsciously I have been putting myself in with them, as I may be a STBX. Well hell, I don't stalk her or harass her or put her down and I try every day to put her recovery ahead of my desire to get back together. I have more bad thoughts about myself than I do about her and maybe it's time I stopped. I'm human and need to accept that. I think even if she chooses not to come back I am still someone worth marrying again. As for those other SOB's, may they get what my wife's first ex got, someone just like them, but worse. Thank you all for the courage to share.
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