At the end of September my wife told me that she cheated on me while she was on a biz trip. She also told me that she wasn't happy and wanted to end the marriage after only 2 years. Being in shock that my wife cheat on me I leftt our house and went to my parents. My wife called and checked on me a number of times to make sure I was ok. Late November she contacted me and stated that she wanted to start dating one another agian. I felt that it may be a good way for us to mend the fences. After a few dates she started telling her family and friends that we were going to try to work things out. Once she told me that I vary happy. She asked me to send Christmas with her family and I agreed. The day before Christmas eve she called me and told me that she wanted to end it for good. Since that day I have been a mess. The divorce is final 01/23 part of me feels like I should fight for her but I'm not sure if that is the healthy thing for me to do. I can't tell you how many times I have told her we can rebuild our realtionship with one another. I guess what I'm getting at is should I countine to fight or start to look at moving on with my life with out her. I want to me with her but is it healthy for me to countine to fight. Any imput would be great I'm so confused right now.
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