Hi, I have been married for 13 years. I have 3 kids. My hsband had a heart attack last year and nearly died, I took care of him, had to go back to work and thought i was happily marrried until a month ago when out of the blue he left me saying he was not happy, and found out he was having a affair. I think he was going to have a affair and then come home but i ruined his plan by catching him. He says the affair is over. My question is have any of you gave them another chance i want to because i love him and want him back, but i do not know if i can forgive and forget. He has never did anything like this before and was always a good husband and father. And truthfully it scares me to this alone with 3 kids and being able to support them. Any advice
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