
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
A local bar is showing Saturday's game between Sens and Leafs on the big-screen, so I might take a chance and go watch it there.
I ran into a 'player' (I met online), at the local grocery store... he is a greeter... oh great, now I'll see him every time I go there!!!
I think I am a loser magnet!!!
I don't like the single thing either, but it is what it is!
I have never even dated so it's really scary for me. I've had two serious relationships one before stbx and ex and that's it so DATING is not something I necessary know how to do...LOL
I don't know how to work this single's thing but I'll just take one day at a time and see what happens and definitely will not lower my standards or settle for just anything. I will not actively "look" either but be expectantly waiting :) and take advantage should the opportunity arise.
Met some good new friends in April, then an old friend in May. Made my year totally awesome. Maybe when I get my decree she'll be interested in checking 'us' out. If not, So Long and Thanks for all the Fish.
I read a lot of 'dating during divorce' sites and felt even better about Not going out there with strangers.
I still don't miss it, which is good cause I don't know where I'd go anyway... I don't drink, I don't smoke cigs any more, and I Just don't know what age group I'd relate to most.
So I'm just having a good time by myself and with those who don't add stress to the situation.
Lets face it you were probably in your early 20's and hot and horney.. now you are more interesed in
a) how many kids
b) do they have a career
c) how many times married/divorced
d) etc
e) etc
So be kind,,, look at the 80/20 rule
you will meet lots of people, only 20% will interest you and of those 80% wont work...so be open.... and laugh alot, accept all decent invitations to go out an socialize and be yourself.....simile alot and ask people out for coffee....
I have no clue what I want. Well, I Do want Friends. I LOVE my On Line friends, but I need face to face friends again.
Dating is a total mystery-I have heard so many conflicting reports...if it isn't just fun and light, I am not sure that I would be comfortable with it.
Politely excused myself from the situation and RAN LIKE HELL.