I have seen things just the opposite.

I tried the internet approach, huge failure!!!

A local bar is showing Saturday's game between Sens and Leafs on the big-screen, so I might take a chance and go watch it there.

I ran into a 'player' (I met online), at the local grocery store... he is a greeter... oh great, now I'll see him every time I go there!!!

I think I am a loser magnet!!!

People come in all flavors and what I consider normal might be strange to someone else.
I don't like the single thing either, but it is what it is!

I was told it's when you least expect it "the one" will be right in front of you. Believe it or not they were right.

I have been getting hit on by so many younger guys. That is really different. My psych teacher keeps calling me. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings, geez I have never liked the whole dating game. I am trusting that when the time is right someone will come into my life. Hopefully older than 25, lol.

Lynette too funny!

I have never even dated so it's really scary for me. I've had two serious relationships one before stbx and ex and that's it so DATING is not something I necessary know how to do...LOL

I don't know how to work this single's thing but I'll just take one day at a time and see what happens and definitely will not lower my standards or settle for just anything. I will not actively "look" either but be expectantly waiting :) and take advantage should the opportunity arise.

I am SO not at this point yet. To be honest, it scares the shit outta me. I might end up with someone even scarier than the last loser!!! Just not ready to take that leap of faith.

Uh. Yeah. I decided last year that I wasn't going to bother looking, didn't want the frustration of dealing more with rejection and idiocy than anything else. And then to actually go Out with someone, couldn't be bothered. I decided that 2007 was going to be magic, and that when the time was right, She would find me.

Met some good new friends in April, then an old friend in May. Made my year totally awesome. Maybe when I get my decree she'll be interested in checking 'us' out. If not, So Long and Thanks for all the Fish.

I read a lot of 'dating during divorce' sites and felt even better about Not going out there with strangers.

I still don't miss it, which is good cause I don't know where I'd go anyway... I don't drink, I don't smoke cigs any more, and I Just don't know what age group I'd relate to most.

So I'm just having a good time by myself and with those who don't add stress to the situation.

Hey... you are just older and wiser and probably more sober than when you were younger and looking.

Lets face it you were probably in your early 20's and hot and horney.. now you are more interesed in

a) how many kids
b) do they have a career
c) how many times married/divorced
d) etc
e) etc

So be kind,,, look at the 80/20 rule

you will meet lots of people, only 20% will interest you and of those 80% wont work...so be open.... and laugh alot, accept all decent invitations to go out an socialize and be yourself.....simile alot and ask people out for coffee....

the one I want has no kids, no ex, no prior marital experience. the only question is, why would any she want MSy old me

I am a believer in the 'go about your business' school, and they will show up. Yes, when you least expect it. Follow your passions with a passion is a good use of all the new free time, run into new people, and let the law of averages go to work.

Being single again after so many years is scary and weird period.

Would love to meet some new people. I'm just scared to death of going out again.

Nothing quite as nice as a little flirt from a stranger :-D

I have no clue what I want. Well, I Do want Friends. I LOVE my On Line friends, but I need face to face friends again.

Dating is a total mystery-I have heard so many conflicting reports...if it isn't just fun and light, I am not sure that I would be comfortable with it.

What is scary is I have come across people out there who are shall we say OUT THERE.

Politely excused myself from the situation and RAN LIKE HELL.