I wish I could dream. If I dream I don't ever remember anything. Haven't for years. I wonder if there is somthing wrong that I do that.

I think dreams reflect your unconscious. You are trying to process the pain your wife has delt you. This to shall past.

Everymorning I wake up happy until I remember that my life is in a shambles. I also have dreams of happier times with my x. I hate it.

Oh god do I know what you mean. I had this recurring dream the first six months that my x and all his sisters and brother had this hole underground and they intended to live in it. They wanted me to bring my children and live there too. It was so scary. It goes away though. Some nights i just stayed up to avoid it. How I functioned those months i still don't know. It will pass, i promise!

for me it's been about a month I try to sleep and all I do is cat nap I don't seem to ever get a full nights sleep rather I sleep or awake all I do is dream about her she is and will proably be all I ever drean of so to you I must ask WHAT IS SLEEP

I understand. 2 years later and I still have constant dreams about her. I am also taking Chantix to quit smoking and one of the side effects is very vivid dreams so it makes it so much worse. I start to feel better then I have a dream where we are back together and I wake up and im sad for the next week or so.

I wasn't sleeping and it was taking its toil. Go to the doc and ask for ambien and take 1/2. I promise you will be asleep in no time....GREAT. I only take them maybe once a week. Then this week, I found some sample packs that the doc gave my hubby, of Seroquel. It is supposed to help you sleep and I think also to help depression. I took that and OH MY GOSH. Yes a wild wonderful dream....but I slept for 9 hours!!!!!!! I don't think it helps with the depression. Of course you don't feel when you are asleep!!

Yeah, I've had dreams about him off an on since this all happened.

Sometimes I don't even remember the details, I just wake with that feeling that I dreamed about him.

I don't know how to make them stop, or what they mean, except that I agree with the person who said it's your unconscious trying to process the pain.

These dreams we are all having are a good sign. It suggests that we are processing deep emotions rather then repressing them below the surface where they can turn into anxiety and obsessions. Perhaps we should all keep a dream journal so we can see our progress over the next few months? Those dreams will change. It's a good thing, plus it is out of our conscious control.

I used to have dreams.....or the ones I disliked the most was when it was the last dream of the night before I woke up. So waking up with a dream about her would ruin my mood and even day. It was hard.....but now to me........I feel it was part of my healing or something since it devastated me so much. Anyhow keep in mind the brain thinks while your asleep....so dreams are often quick thoughts of your mind still running. I can have a dream about her now and it doesnt bother me. Just know things will get better I promise. I was in same boat....I cant believe things are better.....but over time you heal. And DONT dwell on the dreams in the daytime...do what you can to make yourself stop. That was the hard thing for me was to stop dwelling. But it got easier and easier the more I stopped myself from dwelling. Stay strong amigo

Yes, I have been having some dreams about my husband as well. I think it's a part of MY healing process. They are always "ok" dreams too. Nothing too outrageous.