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games or just mean

MimiL
MimiL
I dated a guy in June and each time we date and it starts feeling real he dissappears but I felt such a connection that try again when he resurfaces (round 3)....and yup he did again...of course ....as soon as we really start connecting he leaves but then he resurfaces and we date again and are closer I thought this time it would stick..not ....but to say you will call and just not ..ok then text and say you will call and again not...and then I broke my no call...and I called and he didnt even answer twice after I said Ill assume you are seeing someone else and I will leave it like that ...he says Ive been busy I will call this weekend...yup no call....all sweet on thanksgiving and I thought we were getting so much closer and more comfortable ....definately so much more comfortable with each other...and then ...this. I dont get it
deleted_user
deleted_user
My bf was exactly the same, had me on a string for 3 months. Would leave and come back saying he loved me but couldn't commit to a relationship. I finally realized he just couldn't commit to me so I ended it. Like the book says, he's just not that into you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
he is a committmentphobe. Read the book Men who Can't love. Its the whole go away come closer bit over and over again. RUN RUN AWAY
deleted_user
deleted_user
He is married. If he is not married he is in a relationship that is more important to him than yours. Don't get hurt by trying/wanting to be with someone who is this inconsiderate this early in the relationship.

They say that the behavior in the begining of the relationship is at good as it gets....what does that say for him?
deleted_user
deleted_user
unreliable, emotionally unavailable, physically unavailable, dishonest....no one is that good looking. He struck out and then some...
deleted_user
deleted_user
You know I have to agree with the above post, nobody is that good looking and he is probably in a different place. Just protect yourself.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think he is in another relationship and just stringing you along. It certainly sounds like he has no respect for you.

I went through the same thing with an XBF for over 2 yrs. When I busted him cheating with 3 OW, although he said we were exclusive, I said I was done. He treated me like this ealy in our relationship but I ignored the warning signs.
Move on. You deserve someone better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have been "teased" or strung along by a "friend" off and on for years. (hot-cold / hot-cold) So recently - I flat out asked him if he was being serious amd he said YES. Guess what? He is back in COLD mode.

And guys say women are hard to figure out?
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