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FVCKING JERK!

deleted_user
deleted_user
He erased everything I had on our home computer. That equals my resume..pictures of my family (my niece and nephew when they were just little guys)...work documents, etc.

WHAT AN INCONSIDERATE JACKASS. Only reason I know he erased everything is because I needed a copy of my resume. Called lawyer. My lawyer called his lawyer. His lawyer called him. He said all deleted.

I HATE him. He has no regard for anyone but himself.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I felt the same way when my H came in while I wasn't home and took the computer. My son had a paper on there that he was working on. Real nice! Then it took about a week to get a new computer and he had changed my aol password. Finally gave it to me-said he was mad cause I had a yahoo email. That's cause I didn't want him seeing what I was doing. I knew he'd go thru my folders. AARRGGGH!
deleted_user
deleted_user
No, they don't Hotpocket. I'm sorry you lost all your stuff. :( Mine threw away stuff his own children made for him....just shows their true character. Selfish asses. Maybe someone has copies of the pics? Resumes are easy to do over...just a pain in the ass he did that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not that I'm an IT person, but that info should be on your hard drive. Someone with the right knowledge could probably locate it for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
He's an IT person. He deleted it from the hard drive.

I swear I feel raped of the last 3 years of my life. Pictures only I took of those kids, and of my dog when he was a pup.

I am so bitterly angry right now.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh, what a complete dick!
chowgirl
chowgirl
There are programs for recovering deleted files, but you'd have to know someone more pc saavy than me to know what to get. Can you afford to call Geek Squad, or one of the other pc repair places? If you can keep the f-ing jerk from saving anything in the meantime, you should be able to recover everything.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Trust me guys, no recovering anything. He is still in possession of the computers. He OWNS a computer store. They are macs. I am s.o.l. and he is an s.o.b.!
deleted_user
deleted_user
You can recover all that information look for an application called "recover my files" it works very well. it will recover documents and photos so don't worry you can get them back.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I say given what he had done.... not good, I would not have been " so nice"
deleted_user
deleted_user
there is a special place in hell for these guys and my stbx will be joining yours there
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