would it really be wrong ? LOL
Seriously I wouldn't put it on the lawn, be the biggr person, you will feel better about you.

Did he say he was coming to get it today? If he did and he doesn't, I'd contact him and say, If you don't get your stuff by such/such date, the I will be calling good will to come get it. Of course this is just my HMO. I just read your journal and you and I have a lot in common. I'm here if you want to talk.

I also would not put it on the lawn,, however, I would put it somewhere that would be easily accessible to him, so that he does not have any reason to go through-out your home!
Good luck!

if you have a garage that might be a better place. and just tell him I'll keep your stuff here til such a date, if not, its going to the garbage man. *hugs* sorry you are going through such a crappy time, it hurts, but I hear it gets better eventually (I'm still waiting on that myself)

NO don't do it.. if anything gets stolen you will need to pay him fair market value for the amounts......

if you have a garage put it there, otherwise wait... go for coffee when he is getting his stuff or have a friend over

Not wrong at all to THINK about doing it. Heck, I can't really say it would be wrong to do it. I personally wouldn't do it though.

Ok, so mostly I was kidding. The thought did occur to me as I was trying to figure out where I would put everything, but I'll be a good girl and just stack it all in a corner. I'm just so tired of having all these upacked boxes all over the place, and now I don't want to unpack a bunch of stuff and then just have to move it around all over again when he finally takes his stuff. I think he doesn't believe I'm going through with this, so he's made no arrangements at all to move anything. I guess when he gets served with papers on Monday, he'll realize it's time to move on. I'll wait until then to push him to get his junk out of my house.

I know it will make you feel good.. damn.. I would come and help you if I thought it was the right thing to do.

but.. butt.. butttttttt... look.. do you want this business finished?.. done with?.. or do you want to drag it on?... I mean.. he can take you to small claims court to get reimbursed for the damaged, missing furniture... yup... and then you will not feel so good.

so... call him.. tell him you need to get the stuff out... and be patient.. be the stronger and more in control adult here.

be well.. (((HUGS)))

PS.. I have been divorced.. 8 months now.. and HIS stuff is still in my house.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Do not incite any agravation. My wife tried to do that earlier this week and I am presently ready to see her whole career turned to crap because she thinks that she can cause agravation.

Ex came over multiple times for things we hashed out in court. I was tempted to man handle it but didnt. Oh, so tempted.

Looking back I did the right thing.

I would agree to give him fair amount of time. But at the same time find out your laws/rights. Call your local police department, tell them he has moved out and still has things there. IN most states there is a certain amount of time they have to get it out before it is legally considered "abandoned". then you can do what you want with it. They will "encourage" you nadle it respectfully, but after the time it is left there. by law, you can do what you will.

I would give him some time and try to ask a few times, then,do what you will with it. I still have small crap here from the ex and it encourages her to call and harrass me and balme me for holding it hostage. Next time my line is:

"You want your stuff, please come get it. If you cna be here in 5 minutes, you can catch it as I throw it from the balcony."

But my situations has been many months. so give it some time but not forever.

btw, in my state/city, it is 3 days they have after they leave. I am in Mass.