I asked my husband not to contact me because it put me back to square one when he did. Then I get an e.mail yesterday saying he wanted to discuss what furniture he could take. I am stunned.....he left 3 weeks ago and I have already sorted the mortgage out and yesterday he got his cheque for 190,000 - more than the house equity, his half, is worth because property prices have dropped. He has a well paid job and savings left by his dad. Yet he wants a few hundred pounds of furniture so desperately that be contacted me knowing it would upset me....and how can the man I married, love, be so calculating and cold? How can he want to hurt me anymore and dismantle bits of what I have left of our life. I e.mailed back saying he must not contact me again as it upset me...and that he had received enough money and wasnt going to take things from the house. Today he e.mailed again listing what he wanted = the tv, 2 beds his mum bought, his saucepans!! etc etc....I told him if he wanted to do this then he would have to do it through court and then I would get maintenance cos he earns more, and some of his pension etc....and I was so angry I would drag it out as long as I could because I had let him go without any trouble and not bothered him since and now he is hurting me. I dont understand how they change so quickly from loving you to wanting a battle over a saucepan
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