Quick background: Married 8 years, ex just had affair at work with slut who sleeps with another man whose marriage she also participated in destroying. He also revealed he had been with strippers two-three times going back 5 years (once at my own brother's bachelor party). He reaveals all this to me just to tell me he doesn't love me and did it as a way to exit the relationship. No attempting to work on himself, spare me the details . . .nothing. Nice guy. Sooooo, my kids have been commenting how they don't get to see their friends as much lately because of this back and forth business. Well, tonight my soon-2-b-ex just left with the kids for the weekend. He asked my oldest son if he had been playing with his friend Joey a lot lately. My middle son (4 and 1/2) looked at his dad and in a sneering voice said, "Noooooo because it's all about YOU now!"
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