
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Hello,
My DS friends, I need some advice. I am the one that filed for Divorce after I found out my husband was having an affair. In these last couple of months his attitude with me and the children has changed tremendously. In his mind, I filed and papers are moving along, but actually I still need to file more papers. We have a separation agreement that seems to be working for us. He gave me and the kids everything and continues to be there for them, he is being very responsible. He hasn't asked me anything about the divorce in 2 months.
I need to give him an update and let him know what the status of the papers are, at the same time I would like to approach him and tell him that I am comfortable with the agreement we have and that I do not want to finalize the Divorce and keep as a separation. I don't expect him to come running back, I don't know about the OW and I don't ask. Please advise, should I go with my heart....
My DS friends, I need some advice. I am the one that filed for Divorce after I found out my husband was having an affair. In these last couple of months his attitude with me and the children has changed tremendously. In his mind, I filed and papers are moving along, but actually I still need to file more papers. We have a separation agreement that seems to be working for us. He gave me and the kids everything and continues to be there for them, he is being very responsible. He hasn't asked me anything about the divorce in 2 months.
I need to give him an update and let him know what the status of the papers are, at the same time I would like to approach him and tell him that I am comfortable with the agreement we have and that I do not want to finalize the Divorce and keep as a separation. I don't expect him to come running back, I don't know about the OW and I don't ask. Please advise, should I go with my heart....
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