Our kids are grown early 20s. My husband said we can stay friends after the divorce. He doesn't even seem to care anything about what is going on in my life but says we can still be good friends. He is not physical or verbally abusive. His abuse is avoidance. One may call it emotional abuse. Never calls and when I call he is polite and acts as if nothing has ever happened. My friends are not like that. Please don't tell me it is up to me. That is what he is saying. I don't think he wants to be friends but just get on with the divorce and pacify me. He never calls unless it has something to do with the kids or something. What would you do in my situation? I am hurt and angry. Thanks for reading.
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