Yes, seems everybody knows we are getting a divorce. With the news out, interesting to find out over a Girls Night that three girls were saying how they thought my STBX was a "catch." Are they crazy? After telling them what he has done or what he is like? I mean, he isn't a Kevin Costner or Brad Pitt but he is masculine and non wimpy. But overly so...the whole controlling thing and bully tactics he plays w/ me. Why would someone tell another who is getting a divorce that they would like to go out and in a long sort of way, get my "blessing?" Makes me sick, maybe a little insecure because my FRIENDS would have MY LIFESTYLE which isn't so bad but it just seems wierd. Anyone have any experience w/ this...? Any thoughts? What would you do if you were me?I'm clueless to what to think.
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