Now that some time has passed, I have had some friends and family tell me it's time to wish him well and become friends. This is a step I need to accomplish in order to move on. What???!!! This doesn't sit well with me. I brought it up with my therapist who said I certainly DON'T have to wish him well but if I wanted to be friends down the road it was my decision. I don't wish him well. In fact, I wish the opposite and I don't want to even see his face nevermind be his friend. Is anyone here friends with their ex's or wish them well? Because I don't, does that mean I am mean spirited? or bitter? Am I doomed?
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