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Friday Night Blues

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Still at work getting ready to go home with the Friday night blues. Spent time with a friend last weekend and took those Friday night blues away. Back to reality this week.

I think my mind is so crazy. I have no desire to be back with stbx, no communication, no romance, no affection no love, but sometimes like now my mind tells me to go see him. I may as well stand in front of a car, that is how much pain it will be to feel the rejection again. I cant believe the way our minds play tricks on us.
I will go to the gym, come home read a bit, maybe work on Christmas cards.
My daughter will be here on the 21st through the 26th that will really help. I have company coming over tom. to help put up Christmas Tree (ba humbug). This will totally be for my kids quite frankly I would just like to skip it this year.
what do other folks do on the weekend?
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for me, nothing. I have no friends to hang with anymore. They either moved or became back stabbers! And my last so called friend left me 8 months ago. Usaly i come home from work take a nap when I'm tired and go online. or come home and go online. Hell I dunno even where to go. I'm not into bars or anything and I have no clue where to meet new people. so yea I can totaly feel what your going through!
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I spend some time working...sometimes I have friends that I attend games with....other times I go to the bookstore or library and dig myself into a book. I am ready for Christmas to be over with...let's skip it this year!
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I moved from my community that I had been in for many years, I dont drink, dont read much, sometimes this journey is just one hour at a time let alone one day at a time.
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i'm ready for it to be
january 1...that is my most favoritest day of the year..always new beginnings. yep, lets skip Christmas this year. My Friday night? the two kids who live at home are at work, i came home from work,got online to DS, put a frozen pizza in the oven, talked to a friend who is having some troubles of her own and now,just made a pot of coffee...woohoo, Friday night!
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My kids went to their dads, I even let them take the dog...I'm sitting at home feeling miserable.
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journey7

Hey got any more of that pizza left? I made coffe so I'm good there....WAIT I JUST REMEMBER I HAVE PIZZA TOOO WOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOO!
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Sit at home, feeling lonely and blue........
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Work
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Um, I am addicted to DS, sooo I hang out with these guys, but i can quit anytime! I can! We are waaaay more fun than your ex!
(((((((((((Grace36))))))))))))
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hey dark and all you posting, got more frozen pizza...got sodas, coffee, and the "good stuff"...come on over :) I wish!
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Well I am going to a high school basketball game. yahoo. But it beats being home alone. My stbx took my 10 year old, she seemed a bit sad leaving. She is worried about having another bad dream, but she knows she can call me.
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After work I played "Santa Claus", a small window of opportunity when both kids are doing something to get some Christmas shopping in. I am picking up my daughter from "evening with Santa" at her school and her friend is sleeping over. We will build a fire, have hot chocolate, play games, I am sure they will not want me around for long...it makes me happy having kids around especially this time of year.
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journey7

where you at I'll be right over!
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thanks for the hug j. needed it. Glad I'm not alone. I am home now, I am going to make myself go to the gym but I will be back on for some hugs in about an hour
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You're right, contacting him will just be more pain and rejection. Thank you.
As for the weekend, I do go out sometimes with my friends, I have dance classes and the rest of the time I come HERE!!!
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