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Today is my Sunday from work.I get to spend the entire day to myself.My mom is spending the next 2 days with her sister so I get a long needed break from playing caregiver for a few days.
After I took her to my aunts house and spent a few hours drinking coffee and enjoying time with just the girls,I hopped in the car and just started driving.Just driving is one of my favorite things to do!
I ended up where I usually do when I'm seeking peace.Highbridge road and surrounding area in Ormond Beach.If you have never been,it is one the most beautiful and serene scenic routesI've ever scene.The area is almost untouched.The river surrounds you as you drive through trees that form tunnels.The sun can be shining and the weather hot but you wouldn't even notice as the trees provide the shade and cool breeze as you ride down the road.
After a long and peaceful drive by myself,I stopped at a grocery store to pick up a few things to make myself a special dinner tonight.
The day must have left me more relaxed than I thought because I've never had such a great shopping trip at the grocery store.
As I was walking through the aisle,a very attractive man began to walk very slowly while checking me out.He even turned to continue watching and ended up running his cart into a display.
I decided to buy myself a bottle of wine for dinner.I seldom drink but WTF I am a single woman with no responsibilities today.
I GOT ID'D!!!!!!!!Darn it,it really must have relaxed me to just be alone today doing something I love to do because I even looked younger.
I also have decided that I am ready to let go of the past.I have deleted my old journal entries and started fresh.I am ready to move ahead and enjoy being alone.I found out today that I rather enjoy it and it can bring me great peace and happiness.I'm still smiling.
I am going to take a long bubble bath and and even longer nap.I will probably see you all tonight after dinner.I really just feel like staying at home tonight and being by myself for a change.But if you don't see me I'll probably be on the porch watching the stars.
After I took her to my aunts house and spent a few hours drinking coffee and enjoying time with just the girls,I hopped in the car and just started driving.Just driving is one of my favorite things to do!
I ended up where I usually do when I'm seeking peace.Highbridge road and surrounding area in Ormond Beach.If you have never been,it is one the most beautiful and serene scenic routesI've ever scene.The area is almost untouched.The river surrounds you as you drive through trees that form tunnels.The sun can be shining and the weather hot but you wouldn't even notice as the trees provide the shade and cool breeze as you ride down the road.
After a long and peaceful drive by myself,I stopped at a grocery store to pick up a few things to make myself a special dinner tonight.
The day must have left me more relaxed than I thought because I've never had such a great shopping trip at the grocery store.
As I was walking through the aisle,a very attractive man began to walk very slowly while checking me out.He even turned to continue watching and ended up running his cart into a display.
I decided to buy myself a bottle of wine for dinner.I seldom drink but WTF I am a single woman with no responsibilities today.
I GOT ID'D!!!!!!!!Darn it,it really must have relaxed me to just be alone today doing something I love to do because I even looked younger.
I also have decided that I am ready to let go of the past.I have deleted my old journal entries and started fresh.I am ready to move ahead and enjoy being alone.I found out today that I rather enjoy it and it can bring me great peace and happiness.I'm still smiling.
I am going to take a long bubble bath and and even longer nap.I will probably see you all tonight after dinner.I really just feel like staying at home tonight and being by myself for a change.But if you don't see me I'll probably be on the porch watching the stars.
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Ahhhhhhhh Jane this makes me happy. I am glad you are taking care of yourself. You deserve this needed break.
deleted_user
Jane, whatever clicked in your head amen to it! What a wonderful post and I am so very happy for your new and improved outlook on life. You go girl! Congratulations!
deleted_user
Wow...Thanks for sharing, I am smiling for you :-)
deleted_user
Jane, I am SO VERY PROUD OF YOU!~! You have come a VERY long way!~! I'm glad you got out & done something that YOU love to do & done it for YOURSELF!~! I'm also very happy to hear that you are starting "anew!~!" CONGRATULATIONS!~! Enjoy yourself this evening & wish upon those stars!~!;)
JennyN
Yeah for you!! Your post has made me smile!
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Gods world, it's beautiful isn't it. the peace and calm, that's how i want my heart to be, i also noticed the beautiful foliage in the northeast today, weather is 70's. it's a georgeous day.
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