All during our 23 year marriage my stbx wife did all our finances. So this weekend, while she was enjoying her long weekend vacation travelling to see her 23 year old boyfriend (she's 49) I decided to look at our checking account history. About a week before Mother's Day I see a check for $150 written to this dude who's first name is the name of the her boytoy. I remember that when she first started her affair with this guy in March 2008 (moved out, moved back, promised not to drink or see him anymore, broke both promises twice in a year), she said she sent him money. So I look in that month and sure enough, there he is. Now I have a full name to go with the image. Don't know what good it does me. Made me mad as I was working in 100 degree heat cleaning out a storage shed getting the house ready to sell while she was lounging by the pool somewhere with her boytoy. But what kind of soulless creature sends money to her boyfriend a week and a half before Mother's Day?
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