Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have decided to forgive myself for the things that I am not proud of.
I forgive myself for:
Talking too much and listening less.
I forgive myself for not taking care of my body.
I forgive myself for being so bossy.
I forgive myself for not taking proud in my home and letting it be a mess.
I forgive myself for getting involved with men that meant me no good after my divorce.
I hope you all bear with me this week. I am airing out some old laundry. This is a safe place to vent. I dont know about you, but my friends are sick and tired of hearing about me and my ex and what did and did not happen. To be truthful, I am sick of it myself.
I am picking myself up, dusting myself off and walking towards VICTORY. Why dont you join me?
I forgive myself for:
Talking too much and listening less.
I forgive myself for not taking care of my body.
I forgive myself for being so bossy.
I forgive myself for not taking proud in my home and letting it be a mess.
I forgive myself for getting involved with men that meant me no good after my divorce.
I hope you all bear with me this week. I am airing out some old laundry. This is a safe place to vent. I dont know about you, but my friends are sick and tired of hearing about me and my ex and what did and did not happen. To be truthful, I am sick of it myself.
I am picking myself up, dusting myself off and walking towards VICTORY. Why dont you join me?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Air away, sounds like you may have some things from my laundry basket.
Did they get mixed up in the wash?
Yes. It is great that I don't have to wash my stbx's laundry. Or clean up after him. Or deal with his constant clutter and almost deliberate sabotaging of my efforts to have a nice home, to eat healthy meals, or even be at home to rest instead of constantly running on stupid errands..
Wow,
didn't know that little gem was festering.
I'm with you there, I think the BIGGEST part of healing will come with forgiving ourselves for our parts, and the SECOND BIGGEST is being happy and content with who we are.
And by all mean vent away thats what helps get those feelings out and get validated (3rd BIGGEST?).
Anywaypick yourself up and find healing you deserve it. With that in mind may we all find a healthy relationship down the road.
I am so sick of my grieving interfering with my desire to partake in the things I enjoy. I have a number of hobbies that I enjoy, but due to my emotioanl scarring, I either don't have the motivation or spend most of my time talking, writing, or reading about my problems.
On a final note, my counseller tells me that getting tired of talking about it is an indication that you are progressing in your grieving. Sorry, maybe some of this is off-topic, but it struck a chord in me.