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I know I'm not that old (34) and I'm a guy so the same pressure doesn't apply to me as much, but one of the things that makes me sad about this separation is that I didn't have any kids and my time-line is now extended even further. In the "best" case scenario, that the divorce happens within a year, and princess charming shows up in my life, it wont be for another 3-4 years until I have a kid (unless an oops happens). That means I'll be 50 by the time my kid is a teen - which likely widens that dreaded communication/life gap between us. That makes me sad. Anyone feels the same?
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"Given a long enough timeline, we all die."
So, what are you going to do to make the most of yours?
You have to ask yourself how old you feel. My friend in college was 22, like me, and had a 63 year old dad that had more spunk than us! Being of that age did not hurt my friend Matt one bit. Just food for thought.
Sometimes I think I am more understanding and able to communicate the older I get.
(dont worry...be happy...lol)
1. I am female.
2. I am 44.
Though I've been with my H for almost 15+ years, we didn't get married till Jun 2002. We started seeking infertility treatments 2005 and have not succeeded.
H said he was not happy, he wanted "out", he wanted to be alone and he is moving out next month.
It's almost impossible to have my own biological child according the the RE. My time is up, even if I meet Mr. Right, it would be too late for me. The breakup is hard enough for me and this made it really hard to swallow.
Personally, I am done, my kids are raised and I am enjoying being the best grandma out there, but I sure see how you could feel this way.