I recently was floored when my boyfriend went through a hard time and his mother, friend and his neighbor decided I no longer deserved to be in his life. I thought that his mother and this mutual friend respected me but apparently not. They took the opinion of a neighbor who has never met me and has only been in his life for a bit over a week without so much as asking for my side of the story. In fact none of them even called to update me on his condition. I am lucky that the friends who are in his life daily know the real deal and kept me informed. I hate when people decide what's best for other people's relationships without knowing what is really going on. This has been a painful realization for me.
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