here's what happened. my whatever he is ex came over to visit the kids. he gets off work at 2 came breezing in at 6:30. Thw kids and I have just finished super. he says, come on, I'll take us out to eat. I tell him that it's 14 degrees outside, they have both been sick and we're in for the night. he sayss, why did you eat so early? come on we'll go get ice cream. I say no they've been sick it's too late visit with them and be done.he tells me that he wants the boys for Christmas eve, then later on on Christmas Day. I told him no, I'm not going to be alone for the whole holiday so he won't have to miss any of his family stuff. Then he says, you know if you went to jail, you wouldn't get out until after Christmas. I said wtf??? and told him to go. Then he crosses the room to stand in front of me,I am on crutches and he tells me that if he had me arrested, I wouldn't even be arraigned until after the holiday. then he starts at me quickly and I raised my hands to protect myself. i hit his glasses and he starts to laugh. he falls back onto the couch and tells me that was what he needed. he goes to the police and told them that i hit him and he wants to press charges. the police call me and ask if I'll come in. I say it's 9 at night, cold outside, I'll come after Christmas and file the report. Cop says no we need you now. So I go because Ididin't know he was a liar. Anyway, long story short, cop says I am a liar, Jimm's story flowed, mine is sketchy and I'm under arrest. Files a felony warrant and 2 minutes later my ex is there to pick up the children. Hmmm. so I am arrested,while they are doing that a male cop asks if I have tatoos, when I tell him yes, cop around the corner starts laughing and saying, let's see em over and over. i ask to speak to supervisor and they quit laughing. Then I tell cop I have a problem, don't feel good and then next thing I know I am on the floor with a seizure. The next thing i realize, i am surrounded by cops and one is poking me with his toe and says, I don't know, does she have a history, fuck, call an ambulance. In the ambulance the emt is poking me with his finger in the middle of a seizure to see if I'm faking. I end up wiyth a bruise the size of a silver dollar on my chest. They take me to hospital and i am having seizure after seizure. The Male deputy won;t let them close the curtain, says he has to see me at all times. the nurse is telling him everything they are giving me and he keeps coming into my cubicle telling me he knows that I am faking and to quit so he can go home. There is no female around except for the nurse. they give me the medicine that I told them I was allergic to and when i have to give a urine sample, cop makes me do it with the curtain open so he can still see me. When the whole thing is over and they release me. cop makes me walk in handcuffs with no coat and no shoes over rocks about 150 feet to his car. I need handcuffs but he puts me in the front seat with him. Then i get to jail, they will not let me make phone call. I still haven't made a phone call and they said oops.Finally my mother realized what had happened and calls my attorney. he ramrods through the hearing and the next day they arraign me and I am bailed out. I wear glasses and they took them from me when I had my seizure and wouldn't give them back. they had my inhaler for asthma and wouldn't let me use it even when I had a hard time breathing. Told me the medical officer had to administer it. Now i need to find an attorney who will handle this in Indiana, the lawyers in this town said that yes my rights were abused, but they have to work in this town, sorry about my luck. If anyone knows an attorney who can help me or has an idea, please let me know
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