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Finally, after 3 long months...

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IM MOVING TOMORROW!!!!

So excited to be getting off someone's couch. *although I am moving on to a sofa bed since its a studio* but its all MINE.

I CANNOT WAIT. So excited!!!!!!

I went shopping last night for things I need which really pissed me off. STBX took everything from me...every wedding present, every utensil, every dish, every glass, every appliance, every piece of furniture, etc. So needless to say I was a little bitter while replacing my $400.00 pots and pans with $60.00 ones.

But, its ALL MINE. So excited to start completely over. =)
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AAAWWWWWW hotpocket... I am SO sorry that your STBX is being such a jerk & took EVERYTHING from you. But, on the other hand, I am SO very proud of you for making this step!~! It IS a BIG step forward!~! YOU will be better off, that's for sure!~! "Keep Your Chin Up!~!" (((((((HOTPOCKET)))))
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It's still a good feeling that it is just yours. Bask in the sunlight and enjoy!
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Way to go! I'm so jealous! Good luck to you!

Ally
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you have the right attitude. it's all yours. everything in your apt. belongs to you, you earned every bit of it. love yourself, and your new place and your new life. congrats.
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YAY! Congratulations! I hope to get to that stage soon.

Have fun in your new Apt.!
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There is a liberating feeling to being in your own place! I did this 6 years ago and bought a bed an armouir (spelling?) and took only my sons computer and a computer desk (of course my clothes too). Anyhow, I didn't care if it was empty. I did return to try and work things out and I now face doing it all over again... this time, the return ticket figuratively) is torn up, put through the shredder and burnt up so I don't even consider coming back!

Enjoy your new life regardless of how mad you get at starting over~ : )
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thats awesome! congrats!!!! I cannot wait to have that feeling :) *hugs to you*
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