Ok friday I was in the hospital...(female problems) he comes and visits me, tells me how much he loves me, and to put the divorce on ice. Was rubbing my back, holding my hand, kissed me on my forehead. Then Sunday Night, I called just to see how his day was..Very positive phone call. 2 minutes later he calls back and tore me a new ass (still looking for it...lol) Says I am a horrible person, I did this to him, and I am a horrible mother because I did this to them. Said the only way we could ever be together is if we clean the slate and get a divorce. (confused look) That dont even makes sense to me. Then he goes on to say I want to be your friend and help you through me divorcing you (he was screaming the whole time) Again confusion. I never raised my voice, or got angry...just said I understand..uh huh uh huh...Called the OW a skank..LOL Said I hacked into his computer at work and deleted files...LOL Not sure I could do that if I tried. So I tell him unitl you get the angryness and bitterness and hatred out of your heart and replace with love, compassion, and forgivness..you will never be truly happy and any future relationship will crumble.. So Yesterday I get an email saying Your a wonderful person and a fantastic mother I love that about you, (ummm what the fk!!))) So I tell him he like Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hide. So I have realized that he has a serious mental problem, and the best thing for me and my children are to file. Got a letter from the bank of one of our Joint CC's, he has taken his name of the card, and left me to pay the 1500 balance. The lawyer today was pissed, said we are going after everything. Told me to get Restraining order, cause he got mad last night and peeled out of the driveway cause I wouldnt talk to him, and the kids hit him up for money. I think he is loosin it..And for some reason I am at peace today, Dont know if it just hasent really hit me, or in my heart I know I am doing the right thing, even tho I love the prick to dealth.
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