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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Ok, most of you know, by now, that my wife of 9 years cheated on me and then left with our children. She is very sorry for happened and I believe it was due to a serious struggle with depression...I am not justifying it...I just know what the cause was. It was VERY out of character for....ANYWAYS....She still loves me, but says she has to find herself, because she feels that she has lost herself...especially if she was able to do that to me. Now....we have decided on a separation....my question is this...is there normally dating involved in this phase? Should I expect to hear that about her? I am very nervous that this could happen.....
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Give her the space she needs to find herself. Don't give up. Get youself help, so you deal with whatever ownership you have in the problems in your marriage (not that I am saying you did anything wrong, but it does take two). Things will get better.
I believe it's tacky but separated spouses do it all the time.
My opinion is that Dating is NOT involved in a seperation, especially if someone is trying to "FIND" themselves.
I have read your posts and believe that if you will stay in the pain, GOD will reveal himself to you and show you the way.