I asked my husbnd to leave Wednesday Jan.10th. I have been back and forth with him over the last 5years with 4 different affairs. The first three I let go of and allowed him back each time. He always said they were just friends but they all said it was more than that. Nov. 22, 2005 he told me that he wasn't sure that this is what he wanted anymore and left to move in with his brother. I called his sister-in-law a week later to talk to him, she said he stayed one night there and had moved in with this girl that leaved a mile from my home. He left me and our 3 kids for a woman and her 4 kids. When I confronted him on it he said that she was a good friend that was just helping him out.(yeah right)I don't feel like I was that stupid. Over the past year we have been back and forth. He would come home then go back. In July he moved in and said he was done with her. Well everytime I turned around I was finding notes or I would have friends call and say she was at his job. He always denied it and told me I should trust him because he was home. The stress of worrying just has gotten to much to handle. Yet,I feel so lost without him. We have been together 18yrs. and married 14yrs.. Does anyone think I made the right decission for me and my kids. I am scared I don't work, I have no money, the account was in his name, he was so angery wed. that he said good luck getting anything out of me. Please tell me what anyone else would do!
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