Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
After 3 1/2 weeks I blew it and called STBX's answering machine and left a message. I was feeling scared and vulnerable and let myself give in to the urge, knowing he wouldn't be home but just wanting to hear his voice. My message wasn't mean or sappy, but I still feel really foolish for calling someone who seems to have moved on with his life like I/"we" never existed. I'm still stunned -and so HURT- that someone who claimed to love me so much just cut me from his life, never calls ... how can he never miss me?
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Don't care what he thinks H. You're human; he apparently is not.
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You did not develop this "addiction" overnight and it won't go away over night. But, you can move on and grow. Next time you are tempted, jump on here and see if anyone can talk you down :^)
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We does it seem easier for the dumper to get over the dumpee? Maybe as some have suggested, they got over us a long time ago and acting like jerks protects them from letting us back in?
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You are not weak, you are just trying to heal!! Of course you have feelings, and sounds like he has trouble showing his. Anyways I agree just jump on here when you feel the urge to call him. This site is wonderful!!
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Lawyers and counselors advise no contact. I think that is what wife did to me. Anyway, I got the hint after stooping so low to save things. You will be okay.
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Maybe - M has a way of falling apart or doing huge avoidance when things get tough. When I got sick (migraines) then my Father died and then I was fired M left me, and his Father is handling our legal Sep issues with the $5000 attorney he hired for M.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
