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Well, I recently wrote a post about being jealous of my ex and thinking that his life was peaches and cream.
Well, my kids told me last night that he did not get the house he was trying to get. I instantly felt sorry for him.I felt a deep saddness because things are turing south for him.
All of sudden I realized that he was not living the dream life. I am! I still have my children, a home to come home to everyday and people who love and respect me. A job that I am good at. A wonderful church family. I am at peace.
He is not. Wow, am I growing up. I use to wish evil upon him. This has taken 4 years. So if this is new to you, please dont be jealous or envious like I use too when I saw people moving past the pain.
It has been a long journey and each step God as been with me.
Well, my kids told me last night that he did not get the house he was trying to get. I instantly felt sorry for him.I felt a deep saddness because things are turing south for him.
All of sudden I realized that he was not living the dream life. I am! I still have my children, a home to come home to everyday and people who love and respect me. A job that I am good at. A wonderful church family. I am at peace.
He is not. Wow, am I growing up. I use to wish evil upon him. This has taken 4 years. So if this is new to you, please dont be jealous or envious like I use too when I saw people moving past the pain.
It has been a long journey and each step God as been with me.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Congratulations!
Big Hugs!
His life has not been going well but he was blaming and is still blaming me. He hit 45, ( I think forced) retired this past June, having physical problems and even his favorite team is the Dolphins and they haven't won a game. He has blamed me for the marriage breaking up and this past week the parenting counselor read him the riot act and told him that he is just as responsible for the marriage and his passive/aggressiveness is part of the problem.
The last couple of days he has been so mad he can barely function. It is not like him. He always has his emotions in check. I think he is ready to blow.
I don't try to talk to him as I only piss him off so I am cautiously staying away.
They say what goes around comes around. I guess this is it.