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It's been an emotional week. He came home from the OW's house on Monday, I cofronted him, he packed and left. I was angry, I was hurt. I screamed and threw things at him.
With nothing to do but think, the rest of the week, my emotions have been on a rollercoaster.
Another sleepless night, and thinking. Why am I so angry that he left, when he really left (emotionally) long ago? I decided, I'm not so much angry he left, but angry for the lies he's told to be with her. He could have been honest, when he knew that I knew, and maybe I could have excepted the fact he had another woman and we could have parted in much more peace.
Today, I am feeling sorry for the OW. He's been her house guest for 8 months, but now he is there for good. The newness will wear off eventually and he will revert to the emotionally and verbally abusive man he really is. As the saying goes " A leopard can't change his spots."
I suppose these feelings won't last, it's the nature of this beast called divorce, but for now, I'm ok.
With nothing to do but think, the rest of the week, my emotions have been on a rollercoaster.
Another sleepless night, and thinking. Why am I so angry that he left, when he really left (emotionally) long ago? I decided, I'm not so much angry he left, but angry for the lies he's told to be with her. He could have been honest, when he knew that I knew, and maybe I could have excepted the fact he had another woman and we could have parted in much more peace.
Today, I am feeling sorry for the OW. He's been her house guest for 8 months, but now he is there for good. The newness will wear off eventually and he will revert to the emotionally and verbally abusive man he really is. As the saying goes " A leopard can't change his spots."
I suppose these feelings won't last, it's the nature of this beast called divorce, but for now, I'm ok.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Confronted and accepted.
I'm glad you're feeling better today. May you feel just a tad better *every* day. :)