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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I know so many others out there have been where I sit, yet I don't know of many really I can talk to about what I'm feeling and going through. I would love to hear and discuss with others who have gone through and/or are going through what I call a 'civil divorce'. Not any thing hateful or spiteful. Still friends, yet not working well together as a married coupld and/or are not happy. When it happens like this, so many feelings I'm having are so confusing. I think it would almost be easier at times if we were just plain mad at each other!
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He gave me the BS line of not being happy and not wanting to work on being married so I did feel very confused and hoped for a long time that he would come back. Well he didn't and I'm dealing with that.
But I will NEVER be friends with him and hang out with him just because what he did is so selfish and I would not have a friend like that. I did once think it would be easier if he had "cheated" on me (which he really did after we were separated and still married). But then getting a divorce for any reason SUCKS and I would still have gone through the same emotions so it doesn't matter.
Occasionally ours flares up into anger over his financial irresponsibility. That does helps, frankly, as you imagined it would. I expect it will settle into permanent civility, and that will be harder.