Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
After discovering the painful truth of stbx's several adulterous affairs and "activity" in a very dark lifestyle, I cant help but feel really icky and dirty. Ick...I cant even believe I EVER let that man touch me. It makes me sick. Yes, he put my health and life in danger and although ever flipping test known to humankind came back negative, I just still feel really icky. My skin is crawling...
Anyone else struggle with this?
Anyone else struggle with this?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
And I know OW cheated on him, so I feel like I've slept with half of the population of Europe...
I was in talks with my lawyers back in Jan 1993 about getting a divorce.. while I was doing the Husband was meeting up with a hooker. This I only found out 2 weeks ago. 15 years later.
We did not get divorced.. we made plans not to end our 10 year relationship and have a family... and life went on.. we did get divorced Spring of this year.
I am divorced now...it is over.. but I really do feel icky.. knowing that he was with a hooker, my family overseas busted him.. we had a child 2 years after the hooker thing..
It all hurts now..even though it was almost 15 years ago.. it feels icky to me.. how could he do that?
HOW do you get rid of that disgusting/gross/icky/dirty feeling? God i wish I could just scrub it away...