Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Is there anyone out there that is going through a separation or divorce and just feels very alone? I have a large family, and while i love them dearly, they have never really shown me the kind of support, compassion or empathy I've wanted. In fact, more often than not, being with them makes me feel worse. Things won't really change with them and while I am working hard to create new friendships in my life, I don't really have many friends. I feel very alone moving forward....so very alone. I need to learn to stop seeking approval and support from others and find the inner strength and inner compass to move forward. My self esteem is in the shitter and I'm struggling. Any advice on how to start regaining the self confidence and self love? I'm doing activities that should make me feel good about myself and I just feel shitty, no matter what I do. Wishing I had a support system is getting me down. I need to focus on loving ME again and I don't know where to begin..
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
As for family it is an entirely different story. My mom in particular tells me to just get over it, now. She won't listen but just tells me what I SHOULD think or feel. I have only spoken to my parents TWICE in the last three months and I feel that they have abandoned me.
I have found some great groups through. www.meetup.com
I am involved in a divorce support group, a hiking group and a dance group.
I really suggest you look up this meetup organization to see what groups they have in your city.
Her leaving, and her comments, really shattered my self image. To hear her say our relationship was no longer worth her effort was devastating.
IMHO, strengthening your faith is the better way to regain your self image. To know that you have unconditional love and forgiveness is priceless. To know there is a purpose for your life gives you inner strength to move on.
When we split I didn't realize I'd no longer be apart of that group but suddenly I was alone. Even my relatives and who I thought were friends went with the others.
I got my dad, my sister, my brother and my best friend; everyone else was suddenly GONE.
Took 6 months but new unions were formed, voluntarily and more sincere.
Time heals, oftentimes.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FKQKM8sHOzA
I also read Andy Andrews book, The Travelers Gift; put things into perspective