I feel like crap after arguing with her and standing up for myself. It started with her wanting to take over the house and trying to force me into moving into the appartment I purchased. I can't move into the new appt. because of the cost of furnishing and other finnancial reasons as I explained to her and asked her to understand. Shes living with her mom (when she has the kids) but the kids don't like it there so thats why she wants the house. I said to her that she is welcome to share the house with me untill we sell it ,I didn't force her to move out, she chose that. Then this conversation continues and she starts blaming me that I put myself in this situation. What I say!? I didn't break up this family for another person you did I say and then she trys again if I was happy I would have stayed. Well you and I were happy but you had your mind on someone else and dont try to tell me those stories anymore because they don't work and know we know why you left. She never heard me talk like this before and stand up for myself. She thaugt I was gonna take the blame for her cheating. Not this time. So now I feel like crap after this but I know that she needs to know where I stand and that she cant play with me no more like she used to in the begining when she decided to leave for another guy. What do you guys think?
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